Change is coming
- By Tim Saxton
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- 22 Jul, 2020
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How are you going to own it?
Everyone keeps saying “I can’t wait for things to go back to normal”. But actually, I don’t think things will ever be normal again - and I’m cool with that.
I like change. I like mixing things up as long as it’s in the right direction and always improving. I’m looking forward to a brand new normal.
As you can imagine, we were massively pleased when the government announced we could start up again after 4 months of lockdown. It felt like forever. We’ve been running free Zoom classes meanwhile, which have been great and were really fun to get going. Finding different ways to structure a lesson, and different ways to cover the core aspects of what we do. Seeing everyone’s face and interacting was the best bit. Truth is, you can’t beat the buzz and the immense motivation you get from all being in the same sweaty room as each other and all sharing the moment, pushing on as individuals while knowing your part of a supportive team. It’s awesome, and we can’t wait to be back.
Change can feel uncomfortable but it’s an amazing way of pushing through to progress and improve, and to find the new you. Have a read of our simple 12 new rules (posted on Facebook).
One change is our new booking system. It’s really to stop too many people turning up unexpectedly - we’d get a hefty fine if that happens. So now you need to book on and pay your fiver upfront. It does mean you have to plan ahead, perhaps be less spontaneous. But on the flip side, it will encourage commitment and it’ll make you plan your fitness and ‘fun’ in advance which is a tried and tested way of "doing more things" and "getting more out of life”. Ask any life coach. It’ll also cut down on those valuable few minutes that we sometimes miss at the beginning of a session when we’re franticly catching up with money from latecomers. We can start on the dot in future. :) Also, if you really can’t make the session, you have until 5pm on the day of the session to transfer your booking to another date. After 5pm you lose your dosh, but this is because we don’t have time to fill your space. Soz.
The biggest change, and the thing that’ll be most frustrating until the pandemic fully passes, will be the lack of contact in lessons. We are, after all, a contact sport. Even though we don’t train full-contact like some blood thirsty animals, lol, we do love to get involved with fruity semi-contact sparring, and practical self-defence. We also love the feeling of smashing spot pads or whacking the kick shield, but for now, that’s just a little too close so we’ll be saving it until we get the all clear. New normal, day 2.
We’ll still throw all sorts of crazy fitness drills at you. We love inventing new methods to get the heart racing and to keep your motivation on fire, so you notice progress every week - and no two weeks are the same. That’ll never change.
Bring along your boxing gloves anyway. The extra weight during some of the drills and techniques will add realism and help tone your arm muscles. It’ll constantly reminding you that you’re a fighter, and it’s a fight-game. Keep that guard up even when your arms are tired - make it a habit - then when we do get to spar again, you’ll be moving like a pro from the get-go.
We recently ran a little survey to find out what people enjoyed in the classes and what they wanted more of. Most of it proved we were getting it right. Phew! But one thing that struck me was people wanted more stretching. So guess what? Yep, we’ll show you a wider variety of stretching techniques in future, and spend a little more time on it. You’ll start to find the stretches that most suit your body type. We also rarely get time to stretch at the end, because that’s valuable sparring time, right? Well, we’ll put that right - at least until sparring starts up again, lol.
So, let’s do it. Let’s get it back. Let’s get back that perfect technique, that fitness, all those friendships, and that all-round general awesomeness. But let’s also get something new out of it. Let’s find new ways to grow and progress, new motivations and new training methods, and of course new friends to play with! :)
It’s no secret that we love a group selfie at the end of sessions. It symbolises that we’ve all come together as a team, no judgement, no prejudices, just one big happy healthy team. It also promotes the fact that you made a choice to come and do something awesome, instead of sitting on your ass on the sofa eating pizza and drinking wine. Although hey, I’m all up for a bit of that when i get home, guilt free of course. Boom. :)
Virtual hugs and invisible high-fives all round. See you soon you lovely people!
Tim
If you’re a creature of habit like me, it can be the best thing ever, or your downfall. The key is to recognize your own habits and artificially create new positive ones.
Consistency is the main thing that’ll get you where you want to be. Anyone and everyone who has ever failed on a fitness plan or on a diet plan has failed because they haven’t been consistent. Without consistency, any gains will be much much slower, and most people will quit early because they’re not seeing gains and not seeing any payback from their work.
You probably need at least 3 weeks of a consistent habit before you’ll see any real difference. Most quit in that 3 weeks and convince themselves that it wasn’t working. It’s only the ones that get past that ‘quiet gains period’ that then suddenly rocket in motivation because they start to correlate the gains they can see with the work they are doing. They train harder, then eat better, and they reach their goals quicker. There’s nothing more motivational than knowing you were responsible for your own progress.
Getting through that 3-4 weeks is hard, especially if you’ve picked all the wrong things to do – ie things you don’t necessarily enjoy or like doing.
If you hate cardio, and a training programme or PT says “do more cardio”, you’ll give it a go for a while but your sub-conscious will do everything in it’s power to take you away from it. A few weeks or months down the line you won’t be doing more cardio and you won’t necessarily know why so you’ll mark it as a fail and you’ll feel crap. But it’ll simply be because you just don’t like cardio!
Equally, if you love cardio – make sure your routine has enough of it so you continue to get your buzz from it. Mix it up, don’t let it go stale. Do anything and everything to keep that love of cardio.
Same goes for weight training, stretching, bag work, etc etc. Try and do a bit of everything, and don’t be afraid to squeeze in a bit of something you don’t like – it’ll strengthen your mind to conquer things you don’t like. I used to hate burpees but forced myself to do them because I knew they’d feature in the blackbelt grading – oddly, I began to actually like them, and have continued to like them ever since! But as a rule, always steer more towards the stuff you actually do like – after all you’re doing this because you like it and because you want to, not because you’re an Olympic athlete whose livelihood depends on it or because someone else is telling you to do it. Training should be fun, and if it’s not, you’re simply doing it wrong.
Hopefully we do it right.... give us 3 or 4 weeks of your consistent attention and then decide. You won't look back, promise.
Below are some new habits to try and build on top of your current training routine. These are aimed at changing your mindset slightly, and pushing ‘training’ into your everyday life rather than just being a focus for a few solitary hours a week while you’re officially ‘working out’:
> If you have a staircase that you climb several times a day (like at home, or at work), do it in slow steps like lunges . Probably 2 or 3 steps at a time, with a full standup motion on each step. Doing it slow stops you using the momentum of throwing your body upwards and it becomes a strength exercise, one that only lasts about 10 seconds, but you’ll do it several times a day and it’ll engage one of the biggest muscle groups in your body. Yes, you might look a bit weird at work though – choose your moments wisely! Your family already know you’re weird so they won’t stop you at home ;)
> Take the stairs instead of a lift. And never stand still on an escalator – walk up it.
> Do some workouts early in the morning before anyone else is out of bed . It’s strangely satisfying once you get over the shock of getting up in the dark. Knowing everyone else is asleep gives you a sense that ‘you’re ahead of the pack’ and also means there’s no guilt like when you want to have a workout but your kids want you to play with them instead. You’ll get a massive sense of self-belief and self-appreciation by getting up for a reason that is totally for you, instead of getting up for work or to sort the kids or whatever. It’s the most un-selfish selfish thing you can do for yourself!
> Do 20 pushups and 20 squats every morning , or at lunchtime before you eat. It’ll take less than 2 minutes out of your day – but the kickstart it’ll do for your muscles and mobility is incredible after a few weeks. Stick with it, and think about increasing the habit to 20 in the morning and 20 in the afternoon. Then move it up slowly to 30.
> Keep 2 reps in the bank . When weight training, some PTs will say ‘go to exhaustion’ or you might feel like you’re cheating yourself if you don’t push to failure. But, those last failure reps could be the ones that give you those horrific DOMS or even cause injury which means you need extra days before your next workout. If you leave 2 reps in the bank, you’ll definitely hit the next session on time and you’ll be feeling good about it. Two consecutive sessions on the right days with 2 reps in the bank, are always going to be better than one session which took you to failure but then delayed or limited the second session. Remember you’re not punishing yourself, you’re progressing yourself.
> Don’t judge a calorie deficit by one day, judge it by the full week . Lots of people are in a deficit Monday to Friday and can’t work out why they aren’t losing weight. But they’re ignoring that the 2 weekend days are so far out of the deficit that they’re overshadowing the 5 good days. Look at the week in total and you’ll get a better view of reality. Habits will always be different on the weekend, that’s just life (doesn’t mean they need to be bad habits, but they’ll always be different). Judging from Saturday to Friday is often better than Monday to Sunday, because if you eat or drink like a lunatic at the weekend you’ve got the rest of the week to eat sensibly to recover. Whereas Monday to Sunday tracking means you’ll likely feel guilty for living a little at the weekend, and that’s not the goal right?
> Close your kitchen cupboard with slow-motion kicks . Yep, it’s another crazy one, but good fun and works on your control and accuracy.
Let me know how you get on!Tim
But here we are. A year and a bit on, and we're preparing to re-open our venues once again, in line with Step 3 of the Government's plans. Initially with the some social distancing rules still in place, but hopefully by 21 June (Step 4 in HMRC's plan) we'll be pretty much back to normal. Whatever normal is now....
What does that mean?
Between May and June there may be some limited pad work, but no sparring. Lots of individual fitness training, lots of line training of techniques and our usual style of kick-ass drills and creative training. ;) We have clear guidelines set out in our Kickboxing 'Back to Play' document that was signed off by the Government in April. This details the phases of getting back to full pad work, self defence contact, sparring, and competition. We'll follow it carefully, as you'd expect.
What does the new normal look like?
- The online booking system works great and totally gets rid of that wasted 15 minutes at the beginning of a lesson where 'cash' gets exchanged. So we'll be keeping it. Paying and booking online means we'll always start on time so you get your full monies worth! It also means we don't have to carry lots of cash to dish out when Billy Big Balls turns up with a £50 note and expects change. ;)
- We'll start dishing out some friendly pushups for those that turn up late too. It's part of the discipline and self-accountability that we teach!
- Historically, when we added extra time on after 8pm a few years back, we gave the option to leave at 8 still if you wanted. But it breaks the flow of a lesson and means those people don't get the full circle of training that they should get - especially the Cool Down which is really really important. So we'll be stopping that. Classes are likely to finish around 8.15 or 8.20pm anyway as the venues get a bit narky when we finish dead on 8.30 and take a further 10 mins to get changed and clear out.
- We'll keep contactless card payments in place for kit purchases (definitely on Tuesdays, not sure about Thursdays yet).
The combination of finding new suitable ways to train on Zoom through lockdown, and the fact that we were simply not allowed to hit pads or hit people, has struck a cord with me and shown me how absolutely important it is. We'll be doing more pad work, more sparring, and more self defence contact skills in future. I always want to get some punch bags at the Tuesday venue but storage is proving a bit of a hurdle currently... I'll update you on that in a few weeks hopefully.
So, what next?
Take a look in the mirror. Ask yourself want you want from life and decide how you're going to get it. Being fit and learning how to fight or defend yourself should never feel like a punishment or a chore If it does, you're doing it wrong. We want you to enjoy each and every session so that you want to keep coming back. We want you gain new skills, new confidence, new fitness levels, new amazing techniques, and a strong blackbelt mindset that can accomplish anything... but most of all we want you to gain new friends so that you have a support group that are aligned with your goals of having a good time and simply feeling good about yourself. We motivate each other and that's why it'll work for you and you'll see gains and changes.
If there is anything you want more of in the sessions just let us know. I'd love to hear how you rate it when we 'bring out the toys' like Agility Ladders, or Battle Ropes, etc. Give us some feedback and we'll do our best to accommodate your suggestions.
Are you ready? Book your sessions up, and we look forward to seeing you real soon.
Oh, and I cannot wait to share all the new banging tunes with you that I've found. The soundtrack to our comeback is going to be... marvellous! (to quote "Fred Again & The Blessed Madonna")
Much love
Tim
So, seriously, how you doing? Are you keeping your sanity during lockdown?
To be honest I really enjoyed the first few weeks - the challenge to adapt and find new daily routines. It felt like life had slowed down and there was less pressure to rush about doing this that and the other. But now, now we’re in week 101 or whatever it is, I’m like “Stick a f**kin fork in me”. I’m done.
I’m bored with groundhog day, I really miss seeing people and the general banter of life that you don’t get on video calls. I’m seeing changes in my thought processes and in my kids behaviour too, some are good changes and some not so good. I hate when my mind starts going dark and I lose my spark, so, this week I’ve done what I always do. When I notice the dark side approaching I go slightly Jedi and I force myself into a good consistent routines. It’s hard at first but soon becomes natural again.
I’m getting up early, walking the dog at sunrise, then having a 30 minute workout. Me time. The kids are still asleep and I’m ‘up’ for me, not for work or any other reason, just me (and maybe the dog). I feel like I’m being good to myself. I’m alive again.
So, by 9am when it’s time to start the long commute along the corridor to my home-working office (takes about 10 seconds), I do it with a clear mind, no pressure, no complications. I want to do it. And coffee helps.
I’m lucky that I can do my day job 99% from home, fully supported by a good company. There’s lots of video calls and online interaction, but, I am starting to hate the confined space of a home office. Cabin fever. The kids absolutely love being home-schooled by Lou downstairs so they've only gatecrashed a few of my video calls.
When my work day is done, I need to quickly detach my brain from work, so I blast out some tunes and have a funky dance while nobody’s watching. My 10 second commute ‘home’ is then much easier, and I’m ready for homelife and family time.
Our online training sessions have been great because they tell me what day of the week it is. Every Tuesday & Thursday I know I'm gonna see some smiley faces, people who probably haven’t seen or spoken to many humans that day either. We all share an important hour of sweat and torture and we're all buzzing to be alive, desperate to punch each other in the face but knowing that kicking towards a screen full of faces will do for now.
I’d give anything for a night of drinking multi-coloured shots, dancing like a bellend and attempting a human pyramid with you guys. It’s always been an awesome social network as well as an ass-kicking martial arts club. I know all the fun times will come again, but for now, everyone has to find their own balance and their own way of keeping the dark side at bay. Talk, share, and help each other however you can.
Facebook and the media can be a negative son-of-a-bitch sometimes so you need to get your happy-fix from somewhere else. It’s usually already in you and you just need to tease it out sometimes. Don’t worry if you feel like you're changing a bit. We’re all changing, and all we can hope is that the new ‘normal’ at the end of the Coronacoaster is a world that's changed for the better.
Keep smiling and be happy. Whisper a warning to your liver that it’s gonna take an absolute alcohol-kicking when this lockdown ends because we’re gonna party our asses off together. ;) Drop me an email or FB message to let me know your own lockdown thoughts or experiences - I’m genuinely interested to know how you’re doing, good or bad.
Take care guys, stay safe. See you soon!
Tim
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The old site was good for us, and brought in quite a few new members - but - it was always hard to maintain, especially when you're a perfectionist like me. And you know what, Facebook is actually way easier to update nowadays. Plus, Facebook is better at getting across the atmosphere and the real spirit of the club - through posts, photos and especially videos. We do love a good video.
So - this site is great if you've just found us. It should tell you everything you need to know. But if you want to see and feel what we're all about, the best thing to do is come on down and say hello and get stuck in. Second to that, feel free to stalk us on FB for a while too.
I look forward to meeting you, and hopefully being kicked in the face by you one day too. :)
Tim
Tuesday Instructor
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